💔💔Staff always let us down! 😭😭We can’t get ahead! 🤦♀️🤦♀️We can’t trust anyone to do it right! If any of those quotes above are familiar – you know what I’m talking about… Expectations of staff in a high performance or excellence culture. Staff are the main flavour on what I call the “Complaints Menu” for business owners. I …
When do you cut and run with staff? Leadership challenge around staff underperforming is one big issue most business owners have to deal with. Of course, staff underperforming is our leading issue to address. The existing platform that staff comes into businesses with obviously affects the tone of how they are going to perform. Prior …
S A F E T Y Without interpersonal safety, there is no trust. You can’t lead anyone without them trusting you. This is one of my truths. Every day my clients are trusting me with their businesses, families, goals and darkest secrets. It is an honour and I am incredibly serious about it. I receive …
Rise and shine beautiful leaders! Looping at the same levels over and over… Haven’t we had enough already? Enough waiting.Enough shame.Enough hiding.Enough sorry~sorry.Enough tall poppy.Enough smallness.Enough “got~to~be~perfects.” Enough! I lost my (sh*t) patience for it all and that’s when my leadership magic happened, I got more interested in the impact I was going to make …
“I work best under pressure” Ugh! One of the most toxic and glamourised beliefs in business! Sure, we might turn it out fast and make it happen and get a fat hit of dopamine… The rush of a result! But we know there is always then the niggling: “We made do” “Best we …
So much of our not~Enoughness is belief systems. 💩 Shitty, little, simple belief systems that stop us. But they have so much power because beliefs hover in this murky place between conscious and unconscious thought processes 🌕🌓🌑 Rarely do we see them. Most of the time they are flying …
Most of the business owners I work with are parents too. Their leadership issues at home are the same in business. 😮😮 It is often way more powerful for me to address the patterns in the context of parenting and let the change flow over onto their style at work. I say “easier”, it’s actually, …
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Wherever you are kicking ass and feeling good about yourself, please notice that you’ve got a mixture of self~esteem and self~confidence there. 🤗👍💪🏽 Esteem is how you think of yourself. 💪🏽 Confidence is certainty around your ability to perform. 💪🏽 🛑 Wherever you are struggling and being tough on yourself, identify if it’s both or …
Seeking relief from External stress or Internal stress. It’s got to be relieved or it damages our nervous system. ⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡ ⚡⚡Connection ⚡⚡Comfort ⚡⚡Control They are the 3 main paths to relief and there are unlimited ways to walk those paths… Some have desirable outcomes, others not! We grow, we learn, it’s messy, it’s beautiful, it’s …
When we are TOUGH on ourselves we don’t grant a lot of grace, space and humanity to ourselves. We withhold many gifts and one of the ways I like to address TOUGHNESS is detailing what we could allow, grant and give permission to ourselves for. Here’s a favourite of mine that I face everyday. Taking …
